Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams. Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Navigating and Exploring the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities. New York, Greenery Press, 2012.

An unprecedented guidebook explaining the community aspect of the kink lifestyle. This is the first book that explains kink culture - the parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, explatoriums and other gatherings that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and community. Readers will learn how to: understand etiquette in different sex communities; negotiate for play and aftercare; and most importantly, what on earth to wear!